Things to say in response to "How do your adoptive parents feel about that?"

"I don't know."

"I have an idea, but it's not clear."

"They are devastated and feel like I have left them behind in order to explore more about my origins."

"Fuck you."

"You know, I trust that they are their own people who can handle their own feelings. I'm sure it's a mixed bag for all of us."

"I don't care."

"It's not my responsibility to caretake my adult parents through their own emotional reactions."

"They hate me."

"I hate myself."

"You should ask them yourself."

"I wish someone would ask me how I feel about it before they ask this question."