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Doing the dishes
My mother wants me to wash a dish the same way she does. First she turns on the faucet with the back of her hand. She squirts a generous...
Aug 291 min read
cold front
it is easy to forget how it changes color (gold to ochre, sage to gray) daub particles reconstruct the air then everything a green screen...
Aug 251 min read


what my dog knows
the sun rose today. cast shadows long on the floor that grew into warm spots for her to sit in. the air fills her lungs, her little puffs...
Nov 6, 20241 min read
Girl Ephemeral
I showed up first, (they said I pieced them together) and with chubby white-knuckled fists grabbed whatever I could, like shattered glass...
Mar 28, 20241 min read
wings.
Birds have always found me when I've needed wings the most. Yesterday one flew to my windowsill and preened her feathers picked at her...
Jul 19, 20231 min read


Close but no cigar
"Our survival depends on accurate recognition of both helpful and hurtful experiences. Remembering that it is not enough to remove cues...
Jun 22, 20233 min read


Treasure in the trash can
Subtitle: Being loved makes me want to hurl. I wish I could be a page in a book, and I could open it whenever I wanted to remind me who I...
Jun 1, 20232 min read


Reunion is pulling the pin out of the grenade
Image credit: James Adams on Unsplash You've carried this dangerous thing you're whole life - the possibility of truth (which some see as...
May 25, 20233 min read


39 years
I'm sure you've heard before that birthdays are weird for adoptees. This one is hitting me especially weird. I'm starting to enter the...
May 3, 20232 min read


Coming alive
I lived for the Spring. After an eternal Iowa winter, there was truly nothing like the first buds of May – like nature herself was...
Apr 20, 20231 min read
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